Christian advice dating non christian
It would be very hard to say I’m happy to wait indefinitely for the right partner.
I’m just as needy for intimacy, love and connection as anyone else.
If you can’t get peace, that is an answer.” When God opens the door for marriage in your life, you will know that you know you are with the right person. Here’s why: in the dating world, thoughts like, “I can’t break up because…,” mean that doubt has given the keys to fear which will drive you down a rough road containing potholes of confusion and bumps of anxiety.
If you aren’t 100 percent certain that things should progress, you’d better take a time-out from the relationship and pray for God to clearly confirm His will! If that’s not enough, your joy tank will eventually read empty.
“Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? Therefore honor God with your bodies.” I Corinthians -20 …you are living together.
Then, ask God for discernment as you listen to others’ advice.
It takes one time to lose your virginity, one time to contract an STD, one time to become addicted to sexual immorality, one time for your fiancé’s respect for you to dissipate forever… The Bible states that while sin is pleasurable for a season, the after effects are horrible. Repent and stay pure until you’ve said your wedding vows. If you choose to ignore the unrest in your spirit and continue on with this person you just don’t think you can live without, I’ll tell you what comes next -- excuses!
…you doubt the person you are dating is “the one” you are meant to marry and fear keeps you from breaking off the relationship. Draper wrote, “Doubt never means yes and always means no or wait a while: God does not lead through doubt. Don’t go so far as justifying staying in a relationship you’ll wish you had abandoned later.
My girlfriend told me that her fiancé constantly asks her “what does God say about you?
” when she is feeling low about herself, initiating a study on Psalm 139 as a couple.
This article isn’t meant for Bonnie and Clyde couples headed for jail.